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How to Plan a Micro Wedding by the Sea (Without Sacrificing the Magic)
Small guest list. Big heart. Endless memories.
When it comes to weddings, less really can mean more.
More time with the people who matter most.
More freedom to personalise every detail.
More space to breathe, soak it in, and be fully present.
At Arches Beach Weddings, we specialise in weddings that feel intimate, intentional, and beautiful, no matter the size. So if you’re dreaming of a micro wedding by the sea, here’s how to plan something that feels just as magical (if not more) than the big white wedding.
First Things First: What Is a Micro Wedding?
A micro wedding is typically a celebration with 10–30 guests. It’s smaller than a traditional wedding but still includes all the beautiful, meaningful moments. The vows, the styling, the food, the joy.
Unlike an elopement (which might be just the two of you), a micro wedding keeps your closest friends and family involved while allowing you to slow things down and savour every moment.
Choose a Venue That Fits the Vibe
Micro weddings shine in venues that are designed for intimacy.
At Arches, you won’t feel swallowed by empty space or rushed from room to room. With a light-filled ceremony space that seats around 60 (ideal for smaller groups), plus the beach just a short stroll away, you get a setting that’s simple, private, and beautiful without needing to fill it with extras.
“We had 20 guests and it felt perfect. Not too big, not too small. Just right for what we wanted.”
The beauty of a smaller wedding is that your budget stretches further. You can invest in what you really care about, whether that’s dreamy florals, handwritten vows, a gorgeous outfit, or an epic meal.
There’s no pressure to follow a formula. Want to skip the cake but hire a string duo? Do it. Want a handfasting ceremony at the water’s edge? Absolutely.
This is your chance to make the day a reflection of you… not tradition.
Keep the Guest List Guilt-Free
The hardest part of planning a micro wedding? The guest list. But trust us: most people will understand.
Be honest with yourself about who you want there on the day. Focus on the people who’ve been present in your life, who make you feel safe, and who’ll bring joy to the day. You can always plan a larger celebration or post-wedding party later if you want to include more people.
A smaller wedding gives your photographer space to capture the in-between: the hand squeezes, the private laughs, the quiet joy.
At Arches, we often see couples slip down to the beach post-ceremony for a peaceful moment together. Just the sea, the sky, and the start of forever.
Pro Tip: Ask your photographer to focus on storytelling. You’ll treasure the intimacy those photos hold.
Don’t Forget to Celebrate!
Just because your wedding is small doesn’t mean it has to be quiet. Plan a joyful post-ceremony moment: champagne on the lawn, a private chef-prepared dinner, dancing under the stars, or a beach bonfire with your favourite people.
Make space for laughter, music, and celebration. It might be a micro wedding, but it can still feel mighty. It’s all about the two of YOU.
